Before the year ends, read Jia Tolentino's searing essay Worst Year Ever, Until Next Year:
In any case, someone will tweet “worst year ever” every few minutes until 2016 is over, and then people will begin tweeting “worst year ever” as soon as 2017 begins. They will type “worst year ever” because of spilled drinks and late Ubers, a new Trump story, a new dispatch—if she miraculously manages to survive until then—from Bana Alabed, the seven-year-old girl in Aleppo who’s been tweeting, with her mother’s help, her fears of imminent death. There is no limit to the amount of misfortune a person can take in via the Internet, and there’s no easy way to properly calibrate it—no guidebook for how to expand your heart to accommodate these simultaneous scales of human experience; no way to train your heart to separate the banal from the profound. Our ability to change things is not increasing at the same rate as our ability to know about them. No, 2016 is not the worst year ever, but it’s the year I started feeling like the Internet would only ever induce the sense of powerlessness that comes when the sphere of what a person can influence remains static, while the sphere of what can influence us seems to expand without limit, allowing no respite at all.
Perhaps it is the horror that swells, perhaps it is our awareness of it.
Yet I have friends who agree that 2016 was terrible culturally, and declare that it was their most fulfilling and happy year personally. This doesn't diminish the personal pain that others have gone through, but allows that there is a limit to the usefulness of abstract empathy. Despair is a passive verb. Even anger is more useful. One can both mourn and feel joy.
A shitty year is the most compelling argument for building oneself a joyful refuge. It doesn't help anybody to freeze out in the cold.
It might be your best year ever. Please, fiddle while Rome burns. More than ever we need your songs.